Monday, March 3, 2008

Messages from a Player Part 2

This is the second part of my friend and her beau. Sadly, this was the end of their relationship. Be warned, the conversation contains explicit language and adult content. Reader discretion is advised.

Girl: can you have dinner tomorrow night

Boy: not sure

Boy: are you asking me on a date

Boy: going snowboarding in the AM

Girl: of course you are

Boy: why

Girl: why what

Boy: what

Girl: you said "why"

Boy: what are yo utalking about

Girl: Boy: why

Girl: so i said, why what?

Boy: im lost

Girl: omg

Girl: scroll up

Girl: why did you say "why"

Boy: when?

Girl: Boy: going snowboarding in the AM

Girl: of course you are

Boy: why

Boy: why the of course

Girl: cause you always seem to have time to go snowboarding

Boy: omg

Girl: it's true

Girl: ive been trying to hang out with you for....how long now?

Girl: and you never can cause you're always going snowboarding

Boy: ive worked for the past 12 days

Boy: been looking for a place to live before and after work

Boy: first day off

Boy: i want to play

Girl: well then i just wanna know how im ever suppose to see you then?

Boy: i dont know Girl

Girl: neither do i Boy, neither do i

Boy: things will be ez when i get my own place

Girl: if you really think im gonna drive to hollywood, you're crazy

Boy: dont get all riled up

Girl: nobody's getting riled up

Boy: you seem to be hot rod

Girl: because i said im not driving to hollywood?

Girl: that's getting riled up?

Girl: interesting

Boy: chill out light sticks

Girl: lol

Girl: ok Boy

Boy: lol

Girl: i wasnt laughing at your comment, i was laughing at your ridicilousness

Girl: just to be clear

Boy: ok Sweetcheeks

Girl: stop with the little names, its condescending

Boy: sorry what does condescending mean

Girl: nevermind

Boy: what

Boy: do you know

Girl: of course i know, im the one who used the word

Girl: it doesnt matter, just stop with the names

Boy: sorry Moonbeam

Girl: Boy im serious. have some respect to stop something if i ask you to stop

Boy: your funny

Girl: what the fuck is your problem?

Girl: everything i say is just a joke to you

Girl: it gets old Boy

Boy: sorry

Boy: lighten up

Girl: when you do it ALL the time it gets OLD. when you mock everything i say, i get fucking tired of it

Boy: ok cranky pants...think its past your bed time......Sorry i cant tuck you in.....Have sweet dreams...ok sweety....Ill give you a call manana to see whats up with dinner.......ok baby....night night

Girl: seriously what is your problem

Girl: can you be respectful at all?

Boy: seriously! Chill out.....

Boy: yah

Boy: stop

Boy: typing

Girl: no! you chill out! im tired of you constantly mocking me

Girl: its RUDE

Boy: how did i mock you

Girl: and its immature to keep doing it when ive told you to stop

Boy: how did i mock

Boy: you

Girl: when i tell you to stop calling me all those names

Girl: and then you keep doing it

Boy: omg

Girl: and keep doing it

Girl: that's mocking

Boy: your such a bratt

Girl: how is that?

Girl: because i get upset when i ask you to stop something and you dont??

Boy: look at your messages

Boy: thats how

Girl: look at YOUR messages

Girl: they're rude! you're constantly rude to me

Boy: there jokes

Boy: fuck

Girl: i dont care!

Boy: your funny

Girl: it bothers me because everytime you sit there and call me one of those stupid names it just means you dont give a fuck what a think or say or what hurts me

Girl: you just keep doing it anyway

Girl: because YOU think its funny

Girl: its not funny to me when you keep doing it after i've asked you to stop

Boy: i dont ever remember calling you names before

Girl: you ALWAYS do so dont give me that

Girl: you always mock me with things like "ahh omg seriously"

Boy: what names get you so riled up?

Boy: ong!

Boy: omg

Boy: !

Girl: its just your general attitude. your attitude of how you only do whats in your interest. if i tell you something bothers me then you act like im a spoiled brat or something and you keep doing it

Girl: well it fucking hurts to be mocked all the time Boy

Girl: and ive asked you to stop numerous times

Girl: and you DONT

Boy: guess i have you all wrong

Boy: seriously

Boy: gosh

Girl: see, there you go again

Girl: acting as if my feelings dont matter

Boy: what

Boy: dude

Boy: Girl

Boy: chill

Girl: i'll chill when you can be mature and actually stop when i ask you to stop something

Boy: you get so worked up

Girl: because you keep doing it!!

Girl: everytime i try to tell you something that bothers me, you just sit there and roll your eyes and act like im being crazy irrational

Boy: bad girl

Boy: time out

Boy: time out

Girl: so why dont you consider someone else's feelings besides your own

Boy: jeeeeeze leweeeze

Boy: sorry

Boy: wait

Boy: dont message another

Boy: k

Boy: awww wait

Girl: i'll believe you're sorry when i tell you something that bothers me, if for once you can be mature and say "ok im sorry" instead of sitting there and saying "jeeeeeze" "chill out hot rod" etc et

Girl: c

Boy: Girl everthing i do bthers you

Boy: you just figuring that out

Girl: pretty fucking much

Boy: ok

Boy: i wont bother you hten

Girl: why do you always have to sit there and mock me?

Girl: why?

Girl: why cant you just understand that the things you say are hurtfuo

Girl: hurtful

Girl: and realize that and say you're sorry and change it

Boy: Girl im done with your temper tantrums

Boy: im done

Boy: i joke

Boy: im not serious

Boy: im playfull

Boy: your not

Boy: thats why things will probably never work

Boy: you should chill

Girl: yes i am, but when i cant say anything about how i feel without you trying to make a joke

Boy: look for an old guy

Boy: or lighten the fuck up

Girl: this isnt about "lightening the fuck up" its about you being respectful! how hard is that Boy?

Boy: you have problems

Girl: are you fucking kidding me?

Girl: I'm the one who has problems?

Boy: wish i was

Boy: Girl

Boy: you have issues

Boy: look

Boy: think

Girl: i like you Boy. i like you a lot. and then when the things you constantly tell me are rude and condescending how the hell do you think that makes me feel?? how?

Girl: when everything i say is just a joke to you

Boy: if you get that mad over a few playful messages

Boy: do you think thats normal

Girl: its not a "few playful messages" its ALL the time!

Girl: i cant EVER tell you how i feel because you make a joke of it

Boy: whatever

Boy: what are you talking about

Boy: we didnt message anything like that

Boy: i thought we were just freindly chatting

Boy: jeeeze

Girl: you're selfish and you dont even see it. everyone except you sees how you are only in things for yourself. you only do things on your schedule and you dont go out of your way for anyone else, ever. you know Boy, it would be nice for YOU to actually plan a date for us

Girl: but that doesnt happen

Girl: i always have to pester you, and bug you just to be able to see you once every 5 months

Boy: im not a planner

Girl: then fucking become one

Girl: get off your ass and think of someone besdies yourself

Boy: you cant change me

Boy: stop trying

Girl: step outside your fucking box and do something nice for someone else

Boy: i told you this long time ago

Girl: what girl do you think is gonna put up with your shit?

Girl: you want someone to "experience things in life with" well what girl is gonna do that when she has to make all the plans

Girl: when you dont put it any effort

Boy: hmmm hang on

Boy: k

Boy: well im up front

Boy: they will have to take it or leave it

Boy: im 26

Girl: nobody is gonna take that shit

Boy: not changing now

Girl: its ridiculous, you need to grow up and think of people besides yourself

Girl: everything you do, you do it for Boy

Boy: why do you even fuck with me then

Boy: you know what

Boy: im the most giving person you will ever meet....if anyone in my fam says something different they are full of shit. Melissa will tell you that I am the most giving person

Boy: not selfish at all

Boy: i just dont have time

Boy: after moving here

Girl: fucking stop with the i dont have time shit

Boy: ok Girl

Girl: you may be "giving" in some aspects, but when it comes to the general picture, you're selfish. you only do things that are convenient for you

Girl: like the 5 times you've stood me up?

Boy: bull shit

Girl: that's "giving?"

Boy: if you can tell me one way im selfish besides my time i would really lie to hear

Girl: the times you've stood me up! that's selfish! when we were suppose to hang out and then you just disappear

Girl: when you cant even give me a heads up with a 20 sec phone call

Girl: because you are too busy partying somewhere

Girl: that's selfish

Girl: how you can be depended on

Girl: ever

Girl: how if you say you're gonna do something, you very rarely ever come through

Boy: thats all time stuff

Boy: when im with you

Boy: i give you 100% of me

Girl: when you're with me??? after it takes an act of congress to see you???

Girl: EVERY time we've done something together, its been because of ME

Girl: you had nothing to do with it

Boy: dude i work

Boy: i worked 84 hours last week

Girl: i dont fucking care if you work. yes i know you work, i get it. stop using it as an excuse! to make a plan and follow through with it doesnt take that long

Boy: ok

Boy: if im so selfish why do you waste your time

Girl: would it be so hard to say "you know what Girl, i havent seen you in a really long time and after i get back from snowboarding it would be nice to maybe grab a drink." would that be so hard Boy? would it be so hard to plan for 1 hour out of the day tomorrow to actually call me and say hey, lets meet up for an hour

Girl: what is so damn hard about that?? but you wont do it

Boy: OK hot rod.....Im working a 12 hour grave.....getting off at 5 and driving straight to the mt........why would i say that...im going to be so tired that i really dont think thaty im going to do shit

Girl: i dont know Boy why would you

Girl: you have time for snowboarding, but you dont have time to grab a drink for one hour

Boy: omg i cant keep going....you almost had me riled up there for a sec

Boy: ha ha ha

Girl: do what you want. you're not gonna find anyone half as good as me who will put up with your shit

Girl: i dont even know why i do it

Girl: i shouldn't

Boy: you dont

Girl: you say you want someone to share life with, but you're not willing to do your part

Girl: you're gonna end up alone

Boy: fuck it

Boy: you dont even admit to having a yahoo profile

Boy: guess we are both fucked

Girl: what is that suppose to mean?

Girl: why are you still stuck on that?

Boy: well seems like you look at my profile

Boy: have a lot to say about it

Girl: yeah, i did once here recently and that was the time i brought it up to you

Girl: whats your point

Boy: ok Girl

Girl: i dont know where you plan on meeting someone who is just gonna do the work for you. at some point you're gonna have to man up and take responsibility

Boy: yes mother

Girl: see, there it is again

Boy: omg

Boy: whatever

Boy: Girl your a negative person

Girl: no im not, im a very positive person. but when you're constantly surrounded by your and YOUR negative ways, it changes things

Boy: ok Girl

Boy: everybody else like to be around me

Boy: even you

Girl: not everything can be go with the flow never make any plans. you're fucking 26 years old, you plan on spending the rest of your life alone?? what girl do you think is gonna put up with your crap? your crap of never calling her, never making any plans to do anything, etc

Boy: what

Girl: people who like to be aorund you are the people who dont have to count on you for things

Girl: tell me when girl is gonna put up with your crap?? what girl is gonna like never getting a phone call from you. never having you plan a date to take her on. what girl Boy?

Boy: if you have a sec read this tell me what you think

Boy: http://www.personalitypage.com/ESTP.html

Girl: answer my question first

Boy: its not a gay joke

Boy: what was the q

Girl: jesus christ

Boy: just read

Girl: tell me what girl is gonna put up with your crap?? what girl is gonna like never getting a phone call from you. never having you plan a date to take her on. what girl Boy?

Boy: maybe thing will be different when i dont work so much

Boy: my carreer is first at this point in my life

Girl: thats just an excuse

Girl: a phone call takes 5 min

Girl: you cant even do that

Boy: i hate talking on the phone

Boy: i make this clear from the start

Girl: thats not the point

Boy: di you read the link yet

Girl: no girl is going to put up with your constant shit. and your work is just an excuse. when you dont work, you'll be too busy partying or snowboarding to make any type of plans either

Boy: my little fingers are getting tired

Boy: ok fine then

Girl: what about the link

Boy: no girl is going to out with me

Boy: single forever

Boy: did you read the link i sent

Girl: yes what about it

Boy: that was fast

Girl: "They can sometimes be hurtful to others without being aware of it, as they generally do not know and may not care about the effect their words have on others. It's not that they don't care about people, it's that their decision-making process does not involve taking people's feelings into account."

Boy: thats crazy huh

Boy: thats me

Boy: the whole thing

Girl: you seemt o be proud that you hurt peoples feelings

Boy: no

Boy: i dont mean to hurt anybody

Girl: well you hurt me

Boy: that part of my brain just isnt developed like other people

Girl: oh give me a break

Boy: so dont take it personal

Girl: that is not true. you have the ability to change your actions, you just dont

Boy: dude

Boy: Girl

Boy: i dont change

Girl: because you chose not to

Boy: ok

Boy: are you done

Girl: do you realize im one of the best things you could probably ever have?

Boy: no i havent

Boy: whys that

Girl: maybe you should realize it htne

Girl: then

Boy: explain smarty pants

Boy: Girl

Girl: i dont need to explain, its obvious. what other girl is gonna put up with your shit

Boy: If I was changed ez i would be in a relationship now

Boy: thats probably why im single

Girl: then i hope you like being single forver

Boy: you must think im a catch or you wouldnt waste so much energy on me

Boy: trying to fix me up

Girl: i thought you were a catch in the beginning, now im just too far involved to leave

Girl: i definitely dont think you're a catch anymore

Boy: a fixerupper

Boy: ha ha ha ha

Girl: well while you sit there and waste more of your time that you could spend having me just realize that im fucking somebody else

Boy: oh

Boy: good job

Boy: have fun with that

Girl: i will

Boy: ok dont call me anymore one thing i really dont like is what you just did.....you found my button.........nice puch lose my number......you shouldnt be trying to hang out with me if you fucking somebody else......thats sleeeezy,,,,,,,and whorish.....

Girl: hold up

Girl: so its ok for you to go around and date other people

Girl: but not me?

Girl: ?

Girl: answer and i'll leave you alone

Girl: how hard is it to fucking answer

Girl: Boy answer me

Girl: you're being a hypocrite and you know it

Girl: im not gonna leave you alone until you answer

Girl: you're just making this more difficult for yourself

Girl: just fucking answer

Girl: maybe you should follow your own advice "you shouldnt be trying to hang out with me if you're fucking somebody else"

Girl: whoever said we couldn't see other people?

Girl: YOU'RE the one who wanted to date other people

Girl: and now suddenly when the shoe is on the other foot it becomes not ok??

Boy: listen

Boy: or look i should say

Boy: i fuck other girls all the time.....I never rub it in you face like you just did...thats all Girl...Im done...please leave me alone

Girl: you just sat there and said it was a problem that i try to hang out with you while im fucking somebody else

Girl: yet, you appearently do the same thing

Girl: how is that not being a hypocrite?

Boy: dude stop massaging me

Boy: stalker

Girl: Boy top

Girl: stop

Boy: Boytop

Boy: ?

Girl: tell me how you're not being a hypocrite

Girl: your big problem was that i was fucking somebody else and still trying to hang out with you

Boy: leave me alone

Girl: yet you appearently fuck other girls and still try to hang out with me

Girl: no because you're being irrational

Girl: you're getting mad at me for something that youre doing too!

Boy: leave me alone

Boy: im not mad

Girl: not until you answer me

Boy: i expect your hoin around

Boy: i just dont want to hear about it

Boy: promise

Girl: i'll promise when you answer me

Girl: how is it ok for you to fuck other girls and still try to hang out with me

Girl: but its not ok for me to fuck somebody else, and still try to hang out with you

Boy: I dont you try to hang out with me

Girl: you're the one who says you would love to see me and all this stuff

Boy: i dont know what the fuck i was thinking

Boy: will you leave me alone now

Girl: and you told me you wern't sleeping with anybody else

Boy: oh looks like im all cought up.....

Boy: will you leave me alone now

Girl: are you lying to me

Boy: yes

Boy: no

Boy: im not

Boy: will youleave me alone now

Girl: when was the last time you had sex

Boy: you fucking lied....light stix

Boy: i answered

Boy: the QW

Girl: answer that one

Boy: that number 6 now

Girl: just answer and dont lie

Boy: before work i had sex

Girl: today?

Boy: leave me alone

Boy: well yesterday

Boy: leave me alone now please

Girl: i cant

Girl: do you swear you're telling me the truth

Boy: yes

Boy: leave me alone now pleas

Girl: with who?

Boy: this girl

Boy: leave me alone now please

Girl: you're seriously making me cry

Boy: ok then you should just stop taliking to me then

Girl: i cant cause i like you

Boy: what

Boy: Girl are you drunk

Girl: if you're telling me the truth then you seriously just ripped me heart out

Boy: your dumb

Boy: dont say shit like you just said

Boy: if you dont want you little feelings hurt

Boy: thats what you tried to do to me

Girl: its different Boy! i tell you all the time how much i like you and want to be with you

Girl: it doesnt even make a difference to you if im fucking someone else or not because you dont even have feelings for me like i do for you

Boy: leave me alone now please

Boy: Girl you just a little to much for me at this time in my life

Boy: i like you too

Boy: be safe with your fuck buddy

Girl: why did you lie to me then and tell me i was the only person you were having sex with

Boy: k im done

Boy: you said the same thing hot rod

Boy: dont know why your all emotional now

Girl: yeah and the last time you asked you were the onle person

Boy: then why do you want to see me

Girl: apperently you "fuck girls all the time"

Girl: so you've lied to me

Boy: work on your fuck buddy

Boy: im done Girl

Boy: bye

Girl: just wait

Girl: the only reason im even sleeping with somebody else is because i cant have you!

Girl: do you know how much it hurts to like you so much and then never get anything back

Girl: what am i suppose to do?

Girl: you're not suppose to even care if im fucking anybody else cause you never any other time show me that you care

Girl: but it kills me for me to like you so much and then hear that just yesterday you had sex with somebody else?

Boy: just want you to know that you initiated this......that was fucked up...you always talk shit to me about how fuckedup i am.......then you through something like that in mhy face............I did really like you.....I thought that when i get my own place things would be defferent.......my schedule will change soon... so i will have time....but i wont look at you the same and to be honest with you that was way out of line.....have fun with your fuck buddy........to bad he dont take out ....on sat night............

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