During my quest for online dating, I have started to collect other stories from friends who are currently dealing with singledom. Below is Part 1 between my friend and the guy that she was supposedly dating. The start of the conversation is in regards to Yahoo! Personal ads. Ironically, not how they met...
Boy: hi
Girl: can you answer my question
Boy: Yahoo Police
Boy: again
Boy: what was the q
Girl: you said "i dont know"
Girl: what dont you know
Boy: i dont remember
Girl: well then, can you let me know if im wasting my time?
Boy: god stop
Boy: i dont want to deal with this
Boy: dont waste your time
Boy: if you dont want to
Boy: i dont know what i want
Girl: i dont know what to do because i like you so much
Girl: it sucks to hear you say you dont know what you want
Girl: i want to be with you and i dont think you feel the same
Girl: ?
Boy: ang on
Boy: hang on
Boy: im back
Girl: ok
Boy: just chill Girl
Boy: Im not getting married or anything
Boy: I havent really dated enough to know what exactly i want
Boy: not that I dont like you
Boy: or anything like that
Boy: because i do
Girl: so im suppose to sit back and watch you date other girls?
Boy: you have a yahoo personals too
Boy: ha ha ha
Boy: like you dont date
Boy: funny
Girl: im not asking to be serious or anything but......i dont know. i like you. it sucks to think about you dating other people when i like you so much
Girl: i dont date. i havent dated anybody else in a long time
Boy: you told me that you have
Girl: i thought this was going somewhere, i really did. and now i have to just sit back while you date around?
Boy: I like you to Girl
Girl: i told you that i had s ex with 1 other person. it was somebody i dated a long long time ago and it just kind of happened. he moved to
Boy: oh
Boy: well
Boy: what am i supposed to do
Boy: dont watch me date
Boy: dont go out of your way to watch my yahoo personals account
Boy: p
Girl: i just dont understand. i dont know what to do. do you not want to date me? do you not want to be with me?
Boy: what are you talking about
Girl: i want to be with you. i want to date you and only you. im not looking to get married but i dont want you to date other people. im not trying to tell you what to do. i guess i just want you to want to date only me
Boy: Oh
Girl: and i thought that's where this was at least headed. i thought you really liked me
Boy: I do
Girl: then why do you want to date other people
Boy: what
Boy: Girl can we talk about this another time
Girl: no because you're not ever gonna want to talk about it again
Girl: look. i laid everything out there on my end, and that takes a lot for me. im pretty much on the verge of tears because it just hurts to like somebody so much and then not get that same feeling back from them. i want to date you and only you. i want you to want the same, but if that's not what you want then i cant just sit around while im put on the back burner while you date other people
Girl: i cant wait aorund for that because i like you too much. and i know what you're gonna say. you're gonna tell me not to wait around and that almost hurts even more because you say you like me but you're just willing to let me go. to never hang out with me again. that doesnt seem like something somebody who likes somebody would do
Boy: OK
Girl: if you say you like me, then show it. but know that when you finally decide to come around or whatever, it doesn't mean im gonna be there waiting for you
Girl: as far as im concerned this is your only chance, and if you're willing to give me up that easy, then fine.
Boy: ok
Girl: you're just willing to give me up?
Girl: ?
Boy: Hey
Girl: what
Girl: are you willing to give me up?
Boy: I really didnt want it to come to this
Boy: No I dont want to give you up
Boy: BUT
Boy: \your putting me in a sh * tty situation
Boy: kind of forcing me into sh *t
Girl: im not forcing you into anything
Girl: what happened to all of that talk about you saying if i would have come over to your place in
Boy: I meant that too
Girl: i've been pretty much dating you for 7 months now. you're putting ME in a sh *tty situation by dating me for 7 months, telling me you thought things were gonna go further, and then telling me you dont know what you want and that you want to date other people
Girl: how do you think that makes me feel? what am i suppose to do? wait around another 7 months?
Boy: k
Boy: stop trippen
Girl: then stop making me feel like im being dragged around for nothing. you tell me you like me and all this stuff, but now to hear that you dont know what you want? of course im gonna "trip" because that seriously hurts to hear that from somebody you really like
Boy: I dont want to hurt you Girl
Boy: I like you
Boy: but if it takes not talking or dating anymore
Boy: thats your choice not mine
Girl: no, it's your choice because then you're the one who's willing to give me up
Girl: do you even want to date me? do you want things to go further?
Boy: k Girl no more of this sh *t
Boy: whatever you want
Girl: if you want to date other people, that's totally fine. but that doesn't mean im gonna be here waiting for you if and when you decide to come back. and if you really like me as much as you say you do, then you wont string me along for another 7 months or make me wait around for you to come back. if you like somebody you should want to be with them
Girl: but i cant force you to want to be with me
Girl: so whatever
Boy: stop
Girl: its not my choice, it's yours. you decide if you want to lose me or not. night
Boy: already
Boy: stop
Boy: If you dont want to see me again thats on you....
Girl: i DO want to see you Boy
Girl: i want to see you every free day i have
Boy: I want to see you too so stop
Boy: damn
Boy: drama
Girl: this is not drama Boy. im freaking telling you how i feel. i havent told somebody i actually like them in a LONG time. you have no idea how hard it is for me to say that
Boy: this isnt drama?
Girl: i like you more than you will ever know. it just hurts to date someone for 7 months and then have it be at a standstill, to feel like the other person doesnt feel like i do
Boy: lok Girl will you please stop for tonight
Girl: so whatever. i've said how i feel. i cant say anything else. like i've said, if you want to date around, then that's cool. but like i've also said it doesnt mean i'll wait around. night
Boy: Id rather talk in person
Girl: well yeah
Boy: Lets do lunch later this week
Girl: i have work so if you want to do lunch you'll have to come out here
Boy: ok deal
Boy: Good night Girl have sweet dreams
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