We went to breakfast. Breakfast is one of those meals that can actually go by quickly no matter how slowly the service might be. Mr. Mute and I had had plans to meet up the week prior, but work, and the better part of life got me and I had to re-schedule. In true Cyn fashion I over booked myself and found myself running to breakfast late. Prior to that, I had to text Mr. Mute about 4 times to find out where we were supposed to go. Finally we decide to meet at Peets in Walnut Creek and walk to the breakfast place. When I arrive at Peets, I don't see him. Little do I know, I walked right past him and sat down. He did not look like his picture. He turned to me and said, "Cyndi?" Me, "Mr. Mute?" And then there is that awkwardness while we say hello, have an awkward hug/ handshake, and he's like "Did you want to drive there?" Me, "Umm. I parked in the garage, so I'm okay to walk." He seemed a bit taken aback by this. But hi. I just parked in the parking garage where I had to pay. Within two minutes of walking, I realize that this entire date is going to be filled with pulling teeth. He repeated his questions. Answered questions that required sentences with one word answers. He was boring and lame. Or maybe he just wasn't that into me.
Breakfast was tasty, it was the Walnut Creeks location of "Katy's Kreek" that's in San Ramon or Danville or whatever. But boring. It couldn't have been over quick enough for me. He paid. There was no indication of a second date. We discussed our plans for the day and parted our separate ways.
Things I learned from this date:
- ALWAYS have a conversation on the phone first.
- Breakfast can be ruined.
- Silence sometimes is better.
- People are ignorant.
xoxo,
Cyn